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I Miss Her and Still Think About Her

I've got to be one of the most horrible human beings, last week was the 1 year anniversary of my sister's death and I completely forgot about her being gone. I think it might be even more horrible that a part of me didn't even care I missed it, or maybe I subconsciously forgot on purpose to not confront the emotions of the loss. Idk.

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AmbivalentFriability · 26-30

There are lots of reasons why you might have missed the anniversary of your sister's passing, you being a horrible person is one of the most unlikely reasons. In the interactions I've had with you I wouldn't say you even maybe hinted at being a horrible person. You're good people. Hang in there. xo

JerseyGal · 51-55, F

You are definitely not a horrible human being at all.
It's often easier to put events, losses, hurt...in the back of our minds. The more we think about them, the worse we can feel. By not remembering, not thinking about them, it does not make us horrible, selfish or uncaring.

SW-User

Probably the latter. It's easier to function by cutting out the emotions. I know I've done it before.... you feel a little off, don't you? Like there's a disconnect.

Asm0deus · F

I'm sorry about your loss.

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