I Feel Like My Mom Doesn't Love Me

This may sound like a comment some emotional teenager would make, but this is not the case. Yes, mom has done a lot for me, materialistic. I keep a prayer journal, not a diary, but it's filled with people I pray about and things I pray for. There is nothing to hide, but mom read a section of it, and of course I would get mad. She read the part I prayed about her and how bad our relationship is. I wrote that I need to keep trying and wrote how she has made me feel. She read it and told me that I need to stop acting like a victim and accept I am a lying hypocrite. She then told me that if I continue to act like a victim, she will act as if I don't exist. To the moms out there, how can you say that to a daughter/son? What does it take to say that?