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I Need Some Relationship Advice

Sorry y'all, this is a long one. So I'm at college right now and I met this girl the first week here. We were filling in time slots for lessons and as I was typing my name in, she was typing her name in the exact same slot. So I finished first and then she then sent me an email with a meme, which I though was the funniest thing ever. So I respond with an email of a meme along with my phone number and she texts me a little later. So we've been going on dinner dates, studying together, and she even ran with me even though she hadn't ran in 3 years. Her love language is gifts, so I give her gifts that are meaningful. Then just the other day, we were studying and sitting next to each other and she puts her leg on mine. So I hesitantly put my hand on her leg. It seems as though things should be clear; it seems as though she clearly likes me and I clearly like her. But we haven't DTR'd and I'm overthinking way too much and doubting everything. Am I overbearing? Because I feel like I am. Also, how do I help her with her anxiety/panic attacks? I want the absolute best for her...
Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
Just be yourself, try not to overthink it, and if you are confused just talk to her, don't try to guess
InvictusIndigo · 22-25, M
@Lackwittyname Thank you so much :) seriously means the world!
Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
@InvictusIndigo Yes of course, and I agree, sounds like you clearly like each other. Just let things happen as they do, and if you feel like kissing her just do it
InvictusIndigo · 22-25, M
@Lackwittyname Just kissed her on the cheek when she went in for a goodnight hug. She stayed in the hug, but then took off before her friends did...
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
You can't be her shrink; you can provide support, but don't feel responsible for fixing her anxiety attacks, or fixing her in general. She obviously likes you. Take it slow. These things can get pretty intense, so please keep up with your classes.
InvictusIndigo · 22-25, M
@greenmountaingal I swear God is speaking through you guys. Thank you so much, this helps so so much!

 
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