Thank you tjw474. You are absolutely right. I do know that another marriage is not in my future. I don't want to throw 26 years away. I do care for him. I have talked to him but unfortunately he becomes defensive and becomes accusing. He is not a bad man. He only becomes defensive because this is the first time in 26 years I have voiced discontent. I am actually a very quiet and submissive person. I will gonly to great links to keep the peace. It is my character flaw. In all honesty I will probably just accept my lot in life.