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Please advise: I would like to start therapy, but I don't know what to say

I have a lot to unload, and I don't know where to begin or what I should and shouldn't tell a therapist or anything like that. I don't want to say a bunch of stuff and immediately get misunderstood for communicating poorly/unexpectedly. I want to make the right impression so that my experience with the therapist doesn't become a shitshow that I can't recover from.
SW-User
Maybe begin with journaling first?
It helps with communicating how you're feeling effectively and warms you up to being open about it before speaking to somebody about it.
Loser · 26-30, M
@SW-User I don't know what I'd even say in a journal
SW-User
@Loser write what you're feeling, thinking, doing
PastelHearts1412 · 22-25, F
@SW-User That's a good idea! When journaling your words don't have to be organized or correct, it's a nice place to begin the process of releasing your feelings
You can always get multiple opinions from people, everyone will have a different perspective; therapists are individuals despite operating within the same general guidelines for client treatment and diagnosis. The whole point of therapy is really about you working through your own thoughts with a professional (hopefully) there to offer some practical tools to improve your habits. Opening up completely while directing the conversation to your preferred topics is more likely to offer tangible results. The work is really on you, not just in therapy but every day, making choices towards improvement... Also, understand that modern therapy is quite limited due to our lack of knowledge of how the mind works. We're not really even sure how prescription drugs work.
SW-User
You're therapist will help you feel comfortable and figure out what to start with. They'll also explain some things to you like doctor patient confidentiality
WizardOfAahs · 46-50, M
You want to make the right impression on the therapist?
WizardOfAahs · 46-50, M
@Loser you feel stuck. You would like to talk to someone but skeptical it will work
Loser · 26-30, M
WizardOfAahs · 46-50, M
@Loser Difficult position to be in. Must be frustrating... maybe a bit scary
Nutshell29 · 26-30, F
Just remember they're not supposed to judge you they may or may not know your situation just try to relax and remember they're there to help you 😊
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
There's no right or wrong way. Just be yourself. The therapist will ask you questions, too
WizardOfAahs · 46-50, M
@Loser psych can write you an Rx for drug
Loser · 26-30, M
@WizardOfAahs I do not want any drugs
WizardOfAahs · 46-50, M
@Loser you are really stuck. Can’t go to therapy. Don’t want psych drug...

 
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