Do you choose the fetish or does the fetish choose you?

If it is a real fetish like diagnosed by the psychologist you absolutely do not pick it, it starts developing before you even know what it is. I think it hit around puberty, there might have been some earlier thoughts but it came on like gangbusters at puberty and sticks for life.

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The fetish chooses you

They can call me whatever they want...they can call me crazy... you can call me whatever you want... that wont change me

It definitely chose me. It's been with me as far back as I can remember.

I love soft feta

Lol..I've no fetishes!

The former.

I'm guessing for some people they would not have chosen the interests they have, especially if they've had to hide them or risk ridicule and judgment.

The second one