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I Feel Hurt

The moment you go to kiss your partner and she backs away for no good reason, upsetting you and then you are made to feel bad for being upset.
helenS · 36-40, F
Don't feel hurt. It's just that a woman sometimes simply does not want to be kissed, and that's ok.
garmicsmi · 41-45, M
Thank you for those nice words.

Hmm I get that but there has been more to it the last week or so, it’s a long complicated old story. Just felt the need to get it out of my system. @helenS
helenS · 36-40, F
@garmicsmi Being kissed is an act of intimacy to a woman (or me at least), and there are times when we don't feel like this.
garmicsmi · 41-45, M
I suppose it works both ways though, when it’s been a hard week and you just want a kiss on the lips as a sign of love. @helenS
somethingIsuppose · 31-35, F
Oi that's brutal, most likely she's got a lot I her head that you should talk to her about
garmicsmi · 41-45, M
You are probably right, I am starting to be worn down by what is a very complicated life situation at the moment. I would understand if I had done something wrong. @somethingIsuppose
somethingIsuppose · 31-35, F
@garmicsmi hate to be cliche but communication is key
garmicsmi · 41-45, M
Not cliched at all and you are right, for a few years now she has had some mental health issues, which I have been the butt of tied in will a serious illness for my mum and dad not coping it has been hard. I work long days running a business and taken much of the daily life’s work lad at home. I thought she had turned the corner now but it appears not and I wonder if I have the stamina for everyone else’s needs anymore. @somethingIsuppose
LyricalOne · F
She apparently feels there's good reason.
SW-User
Did she say why?
I am going to be honest here, I did that at the end of my marriage, the reason was that I was no longer was attracted to him.
He had hurt me for too many years for me to feel romantic toward him.
But, then he cheated on me and lied for many years, so it might be a whole different situtation for you.
garmicsmi · 41-45, M
I would say it’s definitely not down to cheating because I have never cheated, it’s just left me feeling empty, I wasn’t after a passionate kiss just a show of love and togetherness. I am pretty sure it’s her current mentality more than anything though. @SW-User
SW-User
@garmicsmi Usually we feel something for a reason, perhaps she thought it was leading to something else and did not want to go there right now?
garmicsmi · 41-45, M
Maybe @SW-User
Sarabee · 41-45
Morning breath😂
garmicsmi · 41-45, M
If only, it’s early afternoon here. @Sarabee
Sarabee · 41-45
Then she clearly is avoiding you🤔@garmicsmi

 
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