I Hate My Husband
Had Enough... The guy has a bad temper. He's been talking to his ex girlfriend, who he says is just a friend for 9 years. He doesn't even talk to his life long friend. Constantly whines about him, but the girl he understands. The girl is engaged and husband talks about how the fiancé is a douchebag, even though he does those same things to me.
I guess I should say ex, because we're in the middle of a divorce, though he made promises we would work things out. The point of the divorce was for him to be able to work more hours and social security not cut my ssi (legally blind). The papers aren't exactly finalized. I was upset about something and he threw everything out of proportion and ran to his mama's house taking the child saying he would be back that day to talk. He ended up filing for the divorce and keeping my daughter away from me (who is an infant) for over a month saying the lawyer said I couldn't see her and talk to him. I had to beg and plead for mother's day. The whole time he was saying after this is over we would fix things. He threatened me to sign the waiver, saying if I didn't he would not let me see my daughter again. I didn't have a lawyer nor could I afford one, and legal aid wasn't available. I had no choice, he pretty much did to me what his ex wife did to him.
I thought things were going all good and he had a bad day. I asked him to do one thing because I couldn't reach it, he jumps me and completely tears into me, insulting me, finally telling me that he cheated on me in the beginning with his ex wife so he could get his son back and that failed, acting like I was suppose to sympathize with that, blaming me for everything, saying I was the bad one in all of this, and constantly reminding me that his girl that's a friend is the best thing that ever happened to him and he messed up letting her go. Yes I have a guy friend I talk to that is just it a guy friend, that I texted and he went ballistic, even though he has a girl friend that was his ex. Thing is, all I said about him to the guy was what why I was having bad days, which I told him that husband is always in bad mood, picks fights with me, wants me to talk to him yet he fights and when I don't say anything he fights. Husband claims he doesn't talk about me to his girl friend, and I read on his messenger, him talking to her about me and her insulting me.
He wants to claim he is kind and loving , never before have I felt so unloved and unwanted. He's worse than my other ex. The sad part is, I had to condense the story because it's already a damned book. Sorry for it being long.
I guess I should say ex, because we're in the middle of a divorce, though he made promises we would work things out. The point of the divorce was for him to be able to work more hours and social security not cut my ssi (legally blind). The papers aren't exactly finalized. I was upset about something and he threw everything out of proportion and ran to his mama's house taking the child saying he would be back that day to talk. He ended up filing for the divorce and keeping my daughter away from me (who is an infant) for over a month saying the lawyer said I couldn't see her and talk to him. I had to beg and plead for mother's day. The whole time he was saying after this is over we would fix things. He threatened me to sign the waiver, saying if I didn't he would not let me see my daughter again. I didn't have a lawyer nor could I afford one, and legal aid wasn't available. I had no choice, he pretty much did to me what his ex wife did to him.
I thought things were going all good and he had a bad day. I asked him to do one thing because I couldn't reach it, he jumps me and completely tears into me, insulting me, finally telling me that he cheated on me in the beginning with his ex wife so he could get his son back and that failed, acting like I was suppose to sympathize with that, blaming me for everything, saying I was the bad one in all of this, and constantly reminding me that his girl that's a friend is the best thing that ever happened to him and he messed up letting her go. Yes I have a guy friend I talk to that is just it a guy friend, that I texted and he went ballistic, even though he has a girl friend that was his ex. Thing is, all I said about him to the guy was what why I was having bad days, which I told him that husband is always in bad mood, picks fights with me, wants me to talk to him yet he fights and when I don't say anything he fights. Husband claims he doesn't talk about me to his girl friend, and I read on his messenger, him talking to her about me and her insulting me.
He wants to claim he is kind and loving , never before have I felt so unloved and unwanted. He's worse than my other ex. The sad part is, I had to condense the story because it's already a damned book. Sorry for it being long.
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