@Autumnsleaves214: That's not good at all and I am very sorry to hear. Your partner should be validating your decisions and not be putting you in a quandary where you feel that you might be second guessing yourself. Good luck to you with your relationship.

@Autumn☺☮sleaves214: You are very welcome, and thank you for asking us.

@Autumnsleaves214: I understand. I do. My sister is going through a similar situation. Offering an alternative view from just dump him. It doesn't have to be a fight. Choose to do your own thing with your kids when finances allow. Two years is sort of just getting settled in a relationship and learning what makes each other tick. Sounds like he wants to do something fun with his kids which is a quality of a good man. That's my two cents for what it's worth.

@Phaedra: Yes, I love him to much to just 'dump him". We spoke last night and after some disagreements about it. we both came to an understanding. So I feel way better. Im not going and we have decided to plan a family vacation when he comes back. Thank you for your input.

@Autumnsleaves214: That sounds super fun! So glad it worked out. :)

@greenmountaingal: exacty and god forbid I tell him that "if hes not paying it" he will flip out on me. its not his fault I dont make the money he does.

@Autumnsleaves214: It's his fault if he's insensitive to it.