I'm Saying Don't Judge Me Until You've Walked In My Shoes
And good luck with that cuz my shoes are tiny 馃槀
But seriously no one really knows why anyone does anything unless they can genuinely take their whole life into account. Sometimes people make bad decisions, but they aren't always as obviously bad as they seem. Maybe they aren't even bad decisions at all! Don't be one of those who jumps to conclusions 馃挄