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I Wish I Had a Better Memory

There's this crazy thing that is happening to me.

This man from Minneapolis keeps calling me and leaving messages, and texting me. He knows all these things about me, my name, my age, where I live, my phone number (obviously), he knows what I look like. He wants to meet me for dinner. He's coming to my city. He's getting a job here.

BUT I HAVE NO CLUE WHO THIS PERSON IS!!!!! I DON"T REMEMBER HIM!!!!!! LOL!

This is one of the weirdest things that has ever happened to me. I told him to send me his picture because maybe I will remember him????

Update: I got a picture of him. I still don't know who he is. I spoke with him on the phone. I STILL DON"T KNOW WHO HE IS. He said we've spoken before. I don't know who this guy is. It is scaring me.

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firefall · 61-69, M

Unless you have some reason to mistrust your memory, I'd say you're getting stalked / gaslighted by someone who's discovered a lot of your personal info. Treat with extreme caution and only meet in highly public places .. and keep an eye out for rohypnol or similar.

AliceinWonderland · F

i'm not going to meet him.

firefall · 61-69, M

@SoftlyBinary: Yeah, I think that's probably very wise, I should have said as much (duh)

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

Two things. He has not clearly identified himself by saying where and when you met and who introduced you.

And, even more significantly, he scares you. That is a clear signal not to meet with him.

Instead, stay home and read this book:
The Gift of Fear by Gavin DeBecker
It's free to read on Amazon now. It's a riveting read. It will not bore you.

SW-User

That is creepy. Be careful. Your memory may not be the problem here.

Gingerbreadspice · F

Block him on everything and keep looking over your shoulder and lock the doors.

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KingLionHeart

@SoftlyBinary: she is not joking
No one here is joking

AliceinWonderland · F

@KingLyinHeart: i know you aren't. he wants to meet me at 11:30 pm at night. that's obviously fishy, lol! i told him don't come, I'm not going to meet with you. you are scaring me.

KingLionHeart

@SoftlyBinary: you need to be concerned and careful

You need to take action to protect yourself!

Pfuzylogic · M

That is incredibly daring to handle it the way you are.
It seems incredibly risky.

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Pfuzylogic · M

Why would you leave yourself open here?

AliceinWonderland · F

@Pfuzylogic: open? what do you mean? i never said anything about myself on here.

Pfuzylogic · M

I am talking about your interaction with him.
Shut it down and report if you feel threatened or at least get advise from LEA.

KingLionHeart

Really?

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KingLionHeart

@SoftlyBinary: it really is.
Have you ever experienced memory loss before?

AliceinWonderland · F

@KingLyinHeart: no

KingLionHeart

@SoftlyBinary: then, ypu may have a stalker.
You probably need professional help.
Someone versed in this area

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AliceinWonderland · F

no. he didn't say that.

SW-User

oh he sounds like a major creeper

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