I Am a Sexual Person
So... This is my story of the dreaded 'lesbian bed death'.
My partner and I have been together for 8 years now and we have been through a tremendous amount of up's and downs that comes not only with our 20 year age gap but also with my religious (as it suits them) family and my being part of the LGTBQA community.
As it does with new relationships our started off running super hot and steamy and in a strong stream, I mean bunny rabbit scale. After about 4 years it turned into a dripping faucet that caused many a fight and me feeling like an unattractive blob since I am hyper sexual and the same cannot be said about my partner.
I love her dearly and more than life itself, our communication is amazing (about everything but sex) and she is my best friend and my consistently weird behavior and idiosyncrasies.
After committing to being more vocal about my sexual needs and trying out for a bit, spoiler alert, it didn't work. She told me that she might be semi asexual... I don't think it really sank in until tonight and to be honest and I have no idea how to deal with it.
My partner and I have been together for 8 years now and we have been through a tremendous amount of up's and downs that comes not only with our 20 year age gap but also with my religious (as it suits them) family and my being part of the LGTBQA community.
As it does with new relationships our started off running super hot and steamy and in a strong stream, I mean bunny rabbit scale. After about 4 years it turned into a dripping faucet that caused many a fight and me feeling like an unattractive blob since I am hyper sexual and the same cannot be said about my partner.
I love her dearly and more than life itself, our communication is amazing (about everything but sex) and she is my best friend and my consistently weird behavior and idiosyncrasies.
After committing to being more vocal about my sexual needs and trying out for a bit, spoiler alert, it didn't work. She told me that she might be semi asexual... I don't think it really sank in until tonight and to be honest and I have no idea how to deal with it.
