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I Want To Know The Worst Thing Anyone Has Ever Said To You

At My World's Worst Moment... We regret to inform you that your daughter died at 12:30 this afternoon-(her idiot boyfriend) I did not know she was even sick and in the hospital. I was at work when I found out and was on my knees sobbing.

We are holding her funeral during the day because no one is going to come to it. (my idiot exhusband) and the funeral home was full

You have the burial plot? Good, that is one less thing I have to pay for. (my idiot ex husband again)

We have a wedding planned and this is going to ruin it (my idiot ex mother in law). Her grandson was getting married..oh yes, the same SOB that was making obscene phone calls to my daughter before she passed...and who had my granddaughters dancing at the wedding.

I hate your name (my idiot exhusband again) didn't he realize I hated his name too and that is why we never had a junior???

I hate your legs...weird shaped legs...(my idiot ex husband again).

You will never make it without me..Oh yeah...well there is nothing you can give me that I don't have or can't get for myself..hmm. I showed him..

You got pregnant against my will...so he said..hmm. I remember he was an active participant..and the pregnancy was planned..

The kids are sick (with a rare genetic disease) because of you..boy did the doctor let him have it with both barrels..

Whew..so glad i got this off my chest..there is a reason why I divorced him...

curiousmattangel
Thankyou for being so inspirational and sharing what clearly is a painful time in your life. I could only imagine how difficult it is to face such a situation let alone be surrounded by unsupportive idiots who manage to take insensitivity to an unbelieveable level. You are a rare and remarkable person of great strength, and even though I don't know you personally I look at you with a mixture of awe and admiration because I hope that should I ever be confronted by a remotely similar situation that I would handle myself with as much dignity and kindness as you have displayed to us on EP. You are a tremendous example to humanity; Thankyou.
akindheart · 61-69, F
this makes me cry..i am so touched by your kindness and thank you from the bottom of my heart..
OkCountryBoy
My thoughts are for a more peaceful life for you, and I know you will have a better life. That your daughter is not in your life now is a sad thing, but you are a good person and have a strong belief inside you.. It's true that having people around you that have such negative and harmful thoughts and words make things difficult for those of us who try to be positive, and it is good to get away from them. That they have to make those rotten remarks to make themselves feel better about themselves, is sick, and better not to be part of their sickness.
akindheart · 61-69, F
Yes, he waited for a long time to get me at the world's worst time but he got me, I was defenseless..
Harley52
Honey you never deserved any of this **** from him. He sounds like such an idiot and a really first class moron. How he could ever do such things to you is beyond my way of thinking....thank goodness. And, I too, am glad you got away from him and his thinking. I'm just so sorry you had to go through any of these things. And I am especially sorry about your daughter. No one should ever have to go through this but we know it will happen at some time in our lives. We can only hope for the strength to get through it all. And time..... Take care sweetheart and know we care about you very much.
OkCountryBoy
some of your friends seem to think that the "rotten" will come back to people who forget how to treat other people, especially those in their own family. Then we will have the opportunity to treat them with the respect they don't deserve, to forgive and possibly take them to ourselves to give them a hug and console them ...when they are older and have " dissed " others for years. Not to make ourselves feel better but to let them know we can forgive.
akindheart · 61-69, F
i am a forgiving person..but no, i don't think so in thiscase...leave revenge in the hands of the Lord....xo
dumbnugly
(hugs) for my dear friend! Not much to say, we have talked of these things before, it is there insecurities rising to the top, they needed to blast you, because you are making it and they aren't.
As for your Daughter, I am so angry myself that they could not at least informed you she was hospitalized. That is just pure sick! God has his own way of dealing with such people and they will get their's sooner or later! (((hugs))) again!
akindheart · 61-69, F
thank you big guy..you mean the world to me..thank you!
papasmerf21
yeah that was sad/ not so pleasant to read but i understand the need to vent....sorry about your daughter and they way you had to find out without knowing anything at all!! that's some b.s. crap right there....

while i don't support divorce i see your reasons but you probably shouldn't have married him in the first place...but then again you wouldn't have a your daughter so idk...

thank you for sharing tho

take care and God Bless!
mdevil
I will never get this situation how a woman like you can end up with an asshole like him!! To me you seem so smart and have always been able to stand on your own two feet!! WHY? Stay away from those controlling SOB'S and look at the handy type of guy!!
akindheart · 61-69, F
lets attribute it to age..we were both young but i got smarter..he never did..he did bring me to my knees on this one..
mdevil
Maybe but for only a short time!! You have rising futher than he will ever go!!
filmman
My belief is that God has a nice plan for you because you examplify sweetness and kindness and natural beauty in your stories , posts and photos, Why someone would treat a honey of a woman like you like that is totally beyond me.
akindheart · 61-69, F
oh..that melts my broken heart..thank you...i can only hope to find a man who appreciates and loves me! thank you.
rw5453
Don't we all have idiot ex's running around somewhere, and if we don't we probably belong to the sexless marriage group, with 10,000 others. What am I looking for, "diamond in the rough" needle in a hay stack" something like that.
akindheart · 61-69, F
i so agree...yes, it is the "ex's " that makes us stronger, yes?
rocktheduece
I cannot believe you were with him long enough for him to say those hurtful things to you. No one deserves to be treated like that. Good for you for getting rid of a worthless piece of shit like that.
akindheart · 61-69, F
yes oh yes.. i did not understand what sociopath meant until i got hit by another one..
58photo
You are as warm and wonderful as they come, AKH. After reading this, I am amazed all the more that you are not bitter or hateful. You truly do have a kind heart and therest of us are all the richer for it.
akindheart · 61-69, F
oh my sweet friend..thank you for seeing the good in me..thanks for believing me..as it is all true...i am glad you are back!
NaoLoirasMais
He really was [is] an idiot. Everyone says something wrong now and I have said things I shouldn't have, but I could not imagine saying things like that.
akindheart · 61-69, F
yes, it brought me to my knees...tosuffer a loss like that and then have the insult added. it is in God's hands..
mycuzinvinni
very good reason to dump his ass sorry you suffered so much that had to be heartbreaking you are a very strong woman to go through all that . vinny
ido1
If only you could block in real life with the ease that you can block here on EP.

Take care lovely friend. Xx
akindheart · 61-69, F
isn't that the truth...sometimes we all need a block button in life..thank you!
ido1
Yep. And sadly drink etx doesn'tt work the same as the block button here.
Weelittleone
I am so sorry - I bow my head and cry out loud - I am so very sorry - you have been hurt more than most people will ever know - you are loved by some - you are love by me !
filmman
Always remember that you are beautiful and certainly do not deserve tro be treated like that.
akindheart · 61-69, F
thank you my friend...i always try to remember that God has a plan..whatever it might be!
MantisReligiosa
omg, this is so sad. But what happened to your daughter? I mean, why did she die? She must've been quite young.
akindheart · 61-69, F
She was very young...33 and left 2 young girls...pneumococcal pneumonia..and a rare disease..thank you for your kindness
Roets
Wow - You are definatly better of with that lot out of your life - sorry for the loss of your daughter.
Weelittleone
did this really happen to you - did you really lose a daughter - ? ? xo
akindheart · 61-69, F
yes it really happened to me..I don't tell lies and this is no joke..i lost her..
mrniceman
am so glad you got it off your chest, and good rid to him :)
akindheart · 61-69, F
I never look back..but this was unreal
fungirlmmm
Sorry! keep moving forward and far away from this jerk!
chico30907
I am so sorry you had to experience ANY of these moments.
mrniceman
should never look back. but sometimes we do
Dreampoet
That guy was a jerk. You deserved better then that.
gllr
You have to get on with your life.
1naughtiesfriend
Speechless
akindheart · 61-69, F
I know J. I still cringe when I read this but it is true.
SleepingTiger
let me hold you.....

 
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