hmmmmm very hard...

I have to agree with the others about his not having thought about you...though ofc he has, but prob doesn't want to "go there"...

The odd thing, for me, is that you apparently went into this relationship always knowing he was not going to be permanent...

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You should tell him how you feel.

Distance tends to separate people even in this day and age. If he doesn't have any plans or will to continue forward, it will probably break. I suggest you ask him if he wants to move forward and let him know how you feel. If you hold your feelings in, it may end up hurting more.

The fact he hasn't given it any thought is a big red flag. It tells just how important the relationship is to him. I hate to be the bearer of bad news but my suggestion is don't settle because it feels comfortable.

I would suggest that you try and find someone else and forget about him.

Why not just find someone else and move on? You don't have to stay with the first guy who has ever showed interest in you. People change as they get older and 6-7 years is a long time for a relationship, especially with folks your/my age...

I hate to say it, but after being with someone for 7 years and he is planning on leaving you and then says this, [quote]I asked him what are we going to do about us and he said he hasn't even thought about it[/quote]

He is not planning on dating you much longer. My guess is that he would just leave saying "He it will all be OK", and then communication would break down an at some point, he would just break up with you.