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I Suck At Dating

I just got back from a date with a guy and I can tell he likes me he at one point said he wants to spoil me with his money and I almost got kind of sad because that’s his hard earned money I don’t want him spending on me because I’m someone that probably doesn’t even deserve it.

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xSiFiGamer2016x · 22-25, M

He's rushing it, I guess, but don't be sad by not accepting it. He needs to learn that you're that kind of person that don't expect half the things you want. Or do you?

lilangel · 26-30, F

I like him as a friends with benefit not really a boyfriend /:@xSiFiGamer2016x

xSiFiGamer2016x · 22-25, M

@lilangel That's good, then. You got a lot of time to decide later on. 👍

hartfire

@lilangel If he's seriously into you and you're not so much into him, it will end with you rejecting him and him being utterly miserable.
If two people are equally casual in their agreement with each other, it's not a problem.
But good sex releases oxytocin, the bonding hormone - which means friends with benefits can evolve into something much more serious.
If it's not mutual it's not fair to play with another person's heart.
It's like playing with matches in a drought-dry-forest; the result is hell.

Livingwell · 61-69, M

@lilangel Be honest and tell him that.