@greenmountaingal: thank you. It means a lot that someone would say that. It's going to take a while to get everything off the ground. To say it's hard to move on it without him is an understatement. But it was our dream. I don't see it as an option right now. I definitely will post it. It's going to need as much advertising as possible. I'm going to focus on my kids, moving into the house and eventually the restaurant. If I stay focused I won't really have time for men. Which would no doubt make my dad happy. He never much cared for anyone I brought home anyhow.