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I Miss My Ex

I broke up with her two days ago because she cheated, lied, and treated me like shit. So I've been keeping my distance but she has been messaging me today about random shit as excuses to talk to me and idk what to do because I really miss her and love her

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SoFine · 46-50, F

Take this time to build up your "Worth of self"
Remember true love is "Self Love"

In special relationships we learn allot, we want sanity of compassion for both in it. Yet, you have 2 egos that want to be boosted up. Till you are at-home in you with your self love established, you will tend to be hurt.

You don't need to be in "One" to be happy, you are your own happiness. Don't settle lower than her, you matter to you the most. If you need the company of someone, then be with your hobbies and interest, connect with like minded. Yes, now you feel empty, yet your inner self worth accounts for so much more.

Be your own best friend, be your guide to know when these toxic people take advantage of you.

Miss her, but don't let her own your true self. (Move on )

AzazelHarvestar · 26-30, M

@SoFine I already told exactly how I felt and how I couldn't take the abuse any longer even tho I love her but she's not ready for a relationship and is acting very immature. She agreed with me and apologized for not handling it better, and that right now is not the right time for us.

AzazelHarvestar · 26-30, M

so then we agreed to keep distance but's obvious she's having a harder time keeping her distance than I do she messaged me two times yesterday once in the morning to ask my opinion on a laptop to buy "because I know more about this stuff than she does" and at night asking if the tide pods I bought her are still good I mean clearly she could have asked anyone else or looked it up she was just making excuses to talk to me pretending everything is okay but clearly she misses me

LucyFuhr · 56-60, F

I don't want to rain on your parade 'cause I totally get what you're saying but allowing her back in right now will only send mixed signals. In a nutshell, it says, [b][i]"I'm okay with the sh*tty way you treated me."[/i][/b]

I hope things turn out for the best 🤗

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

Yeah..don't message her back and block her if that's what it takes including social media. If you cave it'll prolong the crap for yourself and she has to understand that doing that to people means there's a consequence. She's not a good person for ya, she's already played you once and she'll do it again bud.

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

Like Dr. Phil says, "Don't reward bad behavior."

Just send her a text: "It's over, Zelda." (Or whatever her name is).

SolGryn · 31-35, M

If its love it will work out. Just dont force anything. I wish the best for you <3

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