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I Am a Single Parent

Hi.
I'm new to similar worlds but have been on EP. I'm looking for someone with a similar story or someone that can be here and give me needed advice.
I am almost 8 weeks pregnant. A week before we found out I was told by the father that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with me. He's now dating someone else. I've had cramping at night and he won't talk to me. He says it's rude for him to talk to me when he's with his friends or with his new girl. He keeps reminding me over and over that he has his own life and his own friends. I have my own friends too. Our relationship was never the best. I always tried to see the good in him and some days I found it, but some days it didn't exist. We've always had problems of some sort.
He hasnt been supportive during the pregnancy so far. He's too busy with living his life and making sure nothing changes for him. We will not get back together and im okay with that. He's very manipulative and i know I will be better off. Has anyone been through this? Anyone that can chat with me and ease my mind. I've been very lonely and I don't like feeling this way. My friends are very busy and I can only stay late at work so much.

Anyone out there?
TexChik · F
He has abandoned you and your child . If you want some of his money and have his parental rights waived... You can do so after your baby is born.
Lululrn · 31-35, F
Through all this we have our ultrasound this coming Monday. He knows the time and location. When we first found out we were pregnant he said he would go. A part of me hopes he still goes. Because I feel like that's the right thing to do. He has shown me no respect lately but shouldn't he be there for the baby even in the beginning. Especially if he said he would go at first?
TexChik · F
He's not going to be there for you or your baby ... He' with someone else now.
Suethenudist · 31-35, F
He should be there for both of you
Suethenudist · 31-35, F
Don't let him get in the way of you and your child.
olderguy2016 · 70-79, M
@nudesue, sure don't let his get away.
GoldenWorm · 51-55, M
Don't forget that once you have the baby, he's on the hook for child support. You will need the money and he should be held responsible.
Random1Guy · 46-50, M
What a douche !!! Lots of interesting people to chat with
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olderguy2016 · 70-79, M
be positive ..forget about him

 
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