I Love My Child

My daughter is two different people once in a while she laughs and talks with me, or she is so cold a raging volcano spewing hatred towards me. I don’t want that I try to love her unconditionally but it’s hard to be rejectected constantly. At home she is either one of these two people but when I take her to therapy she is cold and angry and scared of me?! I’m so confused? What on earth have I done? Why does she hate me so much? I love her, she is my daughter I will do anything to make her feel loved and accepted by me. Even if that’s the part of me that she is trying to destroy.