I Have a Difficult Mother

Or should i say i had.... it's a very long story.. but the fact is it wasn't until after she died that i really got to understand her, why she did the things she did...and to have some sympathy with how hard her life had been.. (she had ADHD - I am pretty sure and it caused no end of difficulty for her.. and ultimately because of that, for me too)
I forgave her a very long time ago.... and came to terms with what happened :)