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SW-User
That's why one should be really happy if they leave because you deserve better. Just saying.
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SW-User
@Throger some just aren't able to maintain that friendship, is not your guilt. Don't feel bad 🙏.
Throger · 26-30, M
@SW-User I do! I actually spend time with some people. Develop bonds and then they’re... broken. It hurts. It’s not so much guilt it’s just hurt
SW-User
@Throger or they could have different motives and simply be busy with their lifes. Just treasure the ones you still have and as for the others it was their choice to leave not yours so.
SW-User
Friends only hang around as much as you let them. If you're not giving back what they are putting in then yea they are going to get bored and bail. It's not the friends that usually move on it's us that make that decision.
Throger · 26-30, M
@SW-User I have friends outside of here, just someone left and I guess I’m down about it. The friends I do have I’m thankful for. Been friends with my best friend for 17 years. Goodbyes always hurt though
SW-User
@Throger It's always going to be a coming and going in this environment. At least in my experience. I don't pretend to be the face of normal as far as making and keeping friends goes, lol. I'm terrible at it on and off of here.
Throger · 26-30, M
@SW-User same here 😂 I’m a very socially awkward person. It still sucks though. Especially how emotional of a person I am. It hits hard
OpalFlower · 36-40, F
I don't have many friends myself.I had one but she was annoying.Always wanted to go out while I prefer staying home saving money.
Throger · 26-30, M
@OpalFlower I feel that 😂 then when I want to go out to eat they expect me to pay for them all haha like you have jobs too 😂 but I still enjoy doing things for them
OpalFlower · 36-40, F
Don't go broke for your buddies lol
Silero · 31-35, M
If they are not In your life then they are not meant to be and you are better off without
AlmostAnAngel · 100+, F
Most are like this yes.