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I Want To Rant

My ex ghosts me and ignores me. Now she texts me on my birthday. What the hell is wrong with people. I'm not asking or begging for attention.

Why can't she leave me the alone instead of making me sad on one day when I just want to be alone. She's the one who left me in the dark.

What pleasure does she get by making me more sad? I really don't get it anymore.

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Lee124 · F

Happy birthday! Your ex should learn to realize that decisions have consequences and she made hers. It could be a case of her needing to know that you are less well off than her. Some do this to make themselves feel good.

You are not the same man she left many months ago so don't give her any food for thought. Live your life and enjoy it. Meet new people be happy and have fun. You have another beautiful year ahead, don't waste it on a what could have been.

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Lee124 · F

@Beatbox34 I agree. She clearly knows how to push your buttons and how it will affect you. My ex did the same then tried to introduce me to his new gf saying he hopes we can be friends. I politely told him I'm not interested in his social life nor whom he is dating and our "friendship" only extends to our children. My life is mine and he is free to live his.

Not even a month later he tried the same old manipulation on me. Friendship permanently severed. My only communication with him now is through the kids.

Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

@Lee124 Some people are sick indeed. As I stated in my post, I stopped interacting with her the moment I realized she ghosted me. She wanted me out of the her life and I just did as she asked. I didn't go out of the way to disturb the person in any way because I understand the fact that they are not mine as she has/or has a guy in her life. I do not intend to make it complicated for them hence I'm respecting the boundaries.

Then what gives them the privilege to screw my head. She herself once asked me to move on and she herself blocked me and ghosted me and now she's doing this. I have no idea what the ulterior motive to this is. I don't care to be honest but I see no point in this crap anymore.

Lee124 · F

@Beatbox34 you've made the right decision. Let's hope now she gets the message and leaves you alone. Wishing you every happiness. You deserve it.

Carissimi · F

She’s playing games with you. Ignore her. Better still, block her.

SW-User

@Carissimi indeed, sadly

Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

@Carissimi I just blocked her. Thank you so much.

Carissimi · F

Good for you. I know it’s painful, but it’s the best for your wellbeing.@Beatbox34

Mamapolo2016 · F

Some people like stabbing dead things with sharp sticks to see if they can still cause pain.🤷‍♀️

Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

@Mamapolo2016 I already was sad. She ghosted me and I just want to be left alone when she didn't want me. What sick pleasure would she get from me being hurt? I'm depressed as it I and this just made my birthday suck like hell.

Mamapolo2016 · F

@Beatbox34 I'm sorry about your birthday. When somebody wants to keep intruding on a life they no longer want to share, you have to protect yourself.

Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

@Mamapolo2016 I'm not responding back at all.

SW-User

Don't be.....only for one person why are u spoiling your beautiful day.....

Simply ignore.....

Btw.... Wish you many many happy returns of the day....

And forget all the shits...

Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

@SW-User Thank you so much for the kind wishes but truth be told I don't have the mood anymore.

I tried my best to not sulk on this day. Apparently, people like to bring others down for the joy of it.

Oster1 · M

She, IMO, is feeling guilt and has a sense of confusion. This is classic. Just let her go........I know you do. It would never be the same again. You actually are quite lucky. Start dating, if not already, some really cute girls.!

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Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

@Oster1 It's really sad to see her do this. I really feel sad to be honest.

Oster1 · M

Happy Birthday! Sorry man, did not realize, it was today.@Beatbox34

Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

@Oster1 Thank you so much man. Thank you for everything man 🙂

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

Someone did the same to me afterwards as well and it drew it out for a long time. Just block her and be done with it.

SweetMae · 70-79, F

I am sorry! That must be painful.

Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

@SweetMae Thank you. Some people really don't care about a person's happiness.

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