I Was Sexualy Abused

The direct answer is that women tend to internalize anger about sexual abuse at themselves because they feel powerless to put the blame where it belongs - on their abuser for fear of family or other social consequences. Also, the self hate given the above explanation is a subconscious attempt to resolve the issue by simply blaming oneself which over time turns into self hate because in fact nothing is resolved. Counselling and hopefully the love and support of family/friends is what is needed

Get some help. Lots of people blame themselves but shouldn’t

im so sorry this has happened.

That happens too often. It shouldn't, but it does. touchofgray is right. You should talk to someone who can help you work through that.

I hope he got what was coming to him.

Dont hate yourself cause what happened was not your fault

sad to hear that

You are not the fault!

stay strong,

Thats bad u should hate him alot more and not at all hate ur self