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I Am a Victim of Domestic Violence

Today was my first time experiencing domestic abuse. He slapped me and pushed me on the floor and took my daughter. I fought with all my night to get her back she was so afraid. Then he grabbed me by the throat I fought back as much as I could while I watched my daughter scream and cry. I couldn't breathe I couldn't even say anything. I thought I was going to die. He then threw all my belongings into the hallway all the neighbours stood and watched and said nothing as I scampered on the floor to pack my things. I had to walk past everyone, they all stared and said nothing. It felt like a walk of shame but now as I think of it it was a walk of victory. I could have died, I could have stayed but I took my daughter and left.

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WalksWith · 56-60, F

Be safe. Take action. Be proactive. Talk to your daughter help her understand this, she is lost and confused. Never go back, you sill want to. He will give you poetry, songs, he knows your buttons your loves, your wants, your desires. You may not think he knows, but he does. The hardest part is that you still have feelings for him. You can't fix him. He won't change who he is.

Right now, with just you walking away, is more than a lot of women were able to. Don't become a statistic. Stay strong, be brave, know that you have women from all around the world throughout time standing beside you and next to you, supporting you.

Then, you and your daughter, learn self defense and self care.