I hate the way people react to this.

it's usually the women who point out that their sexuality is more tied to their emotions...

Mine.... Too.

And people are like "big deal you don't want to fuck what you haven't bonded with that's normal."

But it's not like that either.

it's not "won't."

It's not "don't"

it's "cannot."

you might think it's straight forward but I am afraid of people I have no familiarity with, I'm always on guard with strangers, I doubt I'd be able preform under the the stress of a one night stand at all....

I doubt I'd even be able to keep it up, I'd be so fucking terrified.