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I Am Demisexual

Sorry to burst your guy's bubbles but 'demisexuality' is just a micro-label that is absolutely usless, most of the world's population obviously would fit under the 'demisexual' tumblr term. I'm tired of people using these stupid labels so they can butt themselves into LGBT or just seem hip & cool. You don't want to bang random people? That's fucking normal, you don't need to make up a fictional label for that
klohrdpe · 22-25, F
Well it looks like the one who told you i-dont-bang-random-people thing mistakenly put themselves in that terminology. Demisexual is much more than that, it's just not about bang who and when. They don't feel any sexual and physical attraction like at all and don't think anyone is HOT for that matter. They will only develop sexual attraction or physical appreciation for someone they have strong emotional connection with which processes gradually over time. Demisexual falls between sexual and asexual category and it runs deeper than just I don't want to fuck random people thing. When someone who says it, they can be a demisexual but in most case they are not. If this description confuses you, then I'll say that demisexuality is basically asexuality but later possible to develop sexual attraction due to strong emotional bond. You can check the whole definition and explanation on the net as I assume you don't read anything about demisexuality.

Goodluck.
P.S I have to disagree with your "most of the world's population obviously would fit under the 'demisexual'.. " statement because by even your logic, even that someone doesn't want to bang anyone random, they will still feel that attraction (which contradicts the whole point/definition of demisexuality, if you read any). And if you look closely to our world now (based on status quo) the point is invalid, since not few people today simply want to bang anyone they found attractive whether they familiar with the person or not.
The take is just bad.

I'm tired of overly zealous people reacting to people using new language as if they're just trying to seem "hip & cool." Rather than expressing something they see as abnormal

I especially disagree with your conclusion.

[quote]You don't want to bang random people? That's fucking normal, you don't need to make up a fictional label for that[/quote]


[i][b]from my vantage point that isn't the typical attitude.[/b][/i] Maybe you're just oblivious to it because a lot of men wouldn't actually tell you what goes on in the locker room but holy shit if you knew how men talk about women when the ladies aren't around.

Our society is absolutely drenched in discussion of Sexuality it's like every third fucking conversation so yeah Not wanting to bang random people is ABNORMAL.
AkAtSUki · F
So demisexual is basically having no desire to have sex with random ppl? I'm new to the term.
th3r0n · 41-45, M
@AkAtSUki basically, no sexual desire without emotional connection,
AkAtSUki · F
I thought that was the normal right thing to do. I'm a demisexual then.
th3r0n · 41-45, M
@AkAtSUki not sure normal and right are compatible these days, but it fits me too.
th3r0n · 41-45, M
How does “Demi-sexual” have anything to do with LGBT?

That label would describe me, as I don’t find myself even wanting sex with someone I don’t have a strong attachment to, but that seems opposite of corruptions to me.
Tubbs · F
@th3r0n because tumblr's "LGBTQIAA+". it is considered LGBT now and i hate it.
th3r0n · 41-45, M
@Tubbs sounds stupid
antisocialbutterfly · 22-25, F
yes...I have always thought of demi sexual as just the lack of a desire to be a whore...and I was like wow...I'm special and I didn't even know it...but haha it's really not a sexuality since you need an additional sexuality to determine who you would sleep with, but not randomly
https://similarworlds.com/839284-I-Am-Demisexual/2551236-You-know-something-with-This-post-In-response-to

 
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