I Am Demisexual

I'd never settle for a girl who told me something like "I'm not your therapist."

I need emotional connection or I have 0 interest in sex. If you're not there for me then what the hell is the point?

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Emotional support and Sex really ought to go together. Too many people play one role but not the other.

if you're not willing to be emotionally supportive there's the door. Avail yourself of it.

of course it goes both ways. I'm there for them, they are there for me. I was under the impression that's what a relationship is supposed to be about.

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Yeah seriously, I don’t mean to say someone should dump all their serious issues on their partner; but the point of any type of relationship is that they should be there for each other; it’s so sad how people say stuff ljke that though

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@BetweenKittensandRiots Common sense says that no healthy relationship has a person seeking emotional support and sex from different people, that’s called cheating.

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@BetweenKittensandRiots i understand!
My husband and i have over the years lost that emotional connection. Yes...we support each other....but we are not as close as is like....but thats as much my fault as his. My interest in our physical relationship is greatly affected by how connected im feeling to him at the time.

I often feel ...if i was ever single again.....its that emotional thing id look for.....In fact...i could live without sex in favour of it.....

I hope you find what you need....

BetweenKittensandRiots · 36-40, MVIP

@RubySoo mon a'mour is busy right now. Don't know what she's up to.

i'm poly so I'm in a relationship but still on the prowl looking for somebody else but I very definitely have at least one partner who gets it and is there for me. Don't tell that to the MRA they'd say I'm a Cuck because my partner has sex with other men but I'm not. Technically she CAN'T !@#$ me because she's not local and we've cybered plenty. But she doesn't do cuckolding at all. she has Boys who have begged her to let them be her little cuckold slave and she doesn't indulge them.

If I were only interested in sex the quickest way between two points is a line and clearly meeting people online is not efficient.

So she can at least take to heart that I love her and am not just looking for sex.

given the emotional aspect is the primary aspect to relationships for me meeting people online at a distance works out fine.

St0ut · 51-55, M

So basically you want a healthy relationship. Ok then

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