I Have a Question

U know when someone dies who is very very close to u, and nothing seam important anymore. Like who cars if the house needs cleaned. Or why go shopping for clothes. Nothing has any significance anymore. I feel like that since my boyfriend left. I feel like nothing mattes anymore.

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SW-User

Change scares people. You were comfortable and everything had its place. Now its change and that is what is the scary thing. We've all experience that. Stay strong. Try to remember what you did before him.

melissa001 · 51-55, F

@SW-User before him I was lonely and boring. I took care of my dad and had no life.

SW-User

I was much like you. I never had a life and depending on others for a life. But hey you never had a chance to discover yourself. I know its hard! There was a time I had no one as well. I had/have no friends and nothing. So I kept myself busy. I discovered who I was. Do basically I know change is scary but soon this new change will become familiar and by then Who knows? I am here if you want to talk or vent. It isn't as good as a BF or anything but hey I am here. Message me if you need. I don't bite =)

booboo · M

first of all, i'm sorry for your loss 😔...and secondly, death has a way of making this world and all that it offers seem pretty meaningless, which, bottom line, it is...

SoFine · 46-50, F

Those who have moved on, it was their life, their begin and their end. Be grateful, it was their own life, the body ended forthem.

We celebrate their life, it was them who did die not "us" we need to adjust, adjust to life without them, it's us with an issue not them.

Consider this quote - Life is not separate from death, it only appears this way. BLACKFOOT proverb.

(Body death is just that the cover, the body has left, the spirit lives on.)

PhoenixPhail · M

Yes, I know that feeling very well.

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