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I Believe Age Difference Doesn't Matter

Absolutely true....love is irrational and unconditional ...hard to explain but can only be experienced ....on the other hand age is a number..based...on science which cant explain love...so...follow your heart...focus on love than some random number..because it doesn't matter..we all get crazy when we are in love !!!!!

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SW-User

It does matter though

in10RjFox · M

@SW-User it really doesn't matter for love.. but maybe for marriage, family, parenting etc.

SW-User

@in10RjFox That’s your opinion

in10RjFox · M

@SW-User well.. I say age does not matter because true love is an appreciation of the person. If it has parameters such as age, appearance, race, wealth , social status etc. then that's either lust or accomodation.

Now can you substantiate why age matters in love ?

SW-User

@in10RjFox I agree if you were talking about platonic love. Now dating wise, there should be an element of attraction. Let’s not fool ourselves. As for me, I’m only attracted to people of a certain age.

in10RjFox · M

@SW-User And now you see.. that is your opinion. And you try to love someone only if you find them attractive. So you don't get to know the person or talk to them etc. Whereas there are others, who get to know the person first and develop insight and build a relationship.

So whose love is love?

SW-User

@in10RjFox
No. It doesn’t work like that to me. Talking is essential. It leads to friendship. For friendship to develop into something else, attraction must strike somewhere. It’s an extra step.

Yes. It’s my own opinion, yet you commented on it stating yours that I haven’t asked for.

in10RjFox · M

@SW-User You asked for it, by saying mine as my opinion.

SW-User

@in10RjFox Lol now that doesn’t make any sense.