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IT HURTS....................

Feeling hurt.


I have been seeing this guy for one year and he is an egoistic person. Why? he would never take no for an answer (even when he is incorrect).
So, out of anger, he ended the call and I messaged telling him to never talk to me again.
It's been 5 days now and he has not reached out. The argument was literally over a word that I said and he wanted to prove that I used it 'incorrectly'. I kept telling him to LEAVE it but he refused.

I don't know if I should contact him but was I really in the wrong? I believe that if you really want someone, you would call them despite everything that has been said. He normally would but I think this time it is different. I hate MEN (not really).



P.S. I have just realised that I sound like a teenager, so sorry for this mini rant.
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It sounds like he's being immature and petty..

If he's not making you feel as special as you are and isn't contributing anything positive to your life, maybe he's doing you a favor..

My suggestion is that you let him.. go that is!

It really doesn't sound like he's making you happy.
Lolitsm · 26-30, F
Exactly!

Thank you for understanding :)

He will torment you with self doubt and irritate you only to prove himself a point and it will likely never change. I don't know if its worth it. You probably did the best thing .
Lolitsm · 26-30, F
I don't know if you have come across people like that but they never change.
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Nobody00 · F
No, if you see no attempt to make up coming from him, don't contact.
Lolitsm · 26-30, F
Thanks for the advice! :)
rottenrobi · 56-60, F
Ugh... do not call him. You did nothing wrong. People should be able to dispute and not have it end like this.
Lolitsm · 26-30, F
You're so right! Thank you for the advice. You are all so helpful :)

@rottenrobi
rottenrobi · 56-60, F
You're welcome @Lolitsm.
You're too good for him.
Lolitsm · 26-30, F
Your comments have made me feel so much better, honestly, you guys are so sweet 😭💗
Carissimi · F
I don’t understand why you are still with him. He sounds so immature. Surely, you deserve better. Whatever you do, don’t call him. He doesn’t respect you as it is, if you call, he will respect you even less, and see you as a doormat.
Lolitsm · 26-30, F
@Carissimi I'm not with him anymore! :) And you're 100% correct
Rambler · 61-69, M
He sounds childish...if he doesn’t bother to try, don’t worry about him
Lolitsm · 26-30, F
Sure! Thank you. ☺️
HannibalMontanimal · 26-30, M
Yes it's all your fault. Call and apologize.
Lolitsm · 26-30, F
I didn't ask
HotPizza71 · 51-55, M
Sounds like he's an arse, and you've had the opportunity to leave, despite it not being the biggest of arguments, it's time to go your seoerate ways
Lolitsm · 26-30, F
You're right, dodged a bullet... cheers :)

@HotPizza71
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