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I Am A Proud Part Of The Unavoidable Revival Of Patriarchy

[big][center][c=#BF0080]Why hobbies are so important Girls![/c][/center][/big]

I just realized something over the week. Perhaps it's me being slow, but this concept really hit me right on the head lately.

The reason why hobbies are so important is not only does it make you interesting long-term, but it means that [b]you are able to put your energy into developing a skill/passion instead of constantly seeking male attention.[/b]

Too many women essentially use male validation as a hobby - the consequence is that even if she does secure marriage, she still is a risk at infidelity because she seeks her fun and interests in men instead of herself and her own life.

Even if you are technically loyal to him, he wants to see that [b]you are able to be happy regardless of any male attention/validation.[/b] THIS is true security in oneself.

This is why it's so important to have your own girlfriends, to have your own hobbies, to have good relationships with your family/siblings. Also, it's an extremely good idea to have a hobby that is completely unrelated to your man/any man/men in general.

[b]Men find clingy women unbelievably trying.[/b] And ti's sometimes easy to forget that they have more work on their plates because they do so much for us and the society. Men naturally have greater goals in life and cannot provide for us all the time.

Simply said, they have real work to do and we just need to find something to keep our hands and minds occupied so we don't trouble them all the time. I am sure [b]none of us want to be that nagging girlfriend who calls up their BAE a million times a day.[/b]

So being able to be happy and content with a hobby that you truly enjoy is wonderful, especially if it is yours and yours alone. Your man will be grateful he doesn't feel like he has to provide 100% of your entertainment and fulfillment.

[b]Especially the last bit[/b] - he needs to know, when he's not around/when he's busy with work or with his friends, what do you do? Do you instead seek male attention elsewhere because he's not giving it to you, or do you instead make use of yourself?

[big][c=#BF0080][i]So go out find yourself something fun and nice to do that keeps all those sweet thoughts about his cock and him away for a while and trust me the wait will be worth it when he comes back home <3[/i][/c][/big]
Lol, if he's the HoH, then you should be too busy looking after house and children to have time to be worrying about hobbies and anyone's "cock".

Him and his pleasure should be your primary concern.
@SW-User You do realise that some of these relationships can be 1950's in nature, which means chores will take much longer than usual right?

After a day of housework in 2018, i'm usually far too exhausted and achy to be doing anything more than curling up in bed and going to sleep, never mind trying to do most of it without modern day luxuries.
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@MrDavies Exactly, I knew that I hadn't given the fullest picture because I'm not 100% on 1950's households. It's not an area that I have researched in too much depth, so I cherry picked some stuff that I could remember off the top of my head.

Further to that, there's also a chance that the husband may prefer you to have skills in handcrafts such as sewing, embroidery, knitting etc so that you can use them to better his house as part of your hobby.
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Not necessarily true... I had a girlfriend extremely passionate about her work, varied world views and extremely smart. But she was at the same time, as you put, a nagging one. Clingy, needy and wanted my time irrespective of her own life, hobbies or interests. Sometimes I guess it's just about how someone is as a person rather than what they're doing with their lives. Just my opinion.
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@SW-User Not much :(
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@SW-User well i hope it gets better real soon
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@SW-User Thanks i wish too. pray for me!
Nice finding the post coming from you. 🙂

Hobbies keeps one well-absorbed & hence sane.
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