I Want to Be a Mom Someday

It sounds as if you would make a great mom with these aspirations for your future. Please don't forget that the man you will share your life with will be your partner and he must agree with your plan for the partnership to work. I hope you can stick to these dreams of being a model mother.
You still have some time to work on it so please don't be in too much of a hurry. I was married for several years and always wanted kids and had a good idea of the kind of dad I wanted to be. It sounded exactly what you wanted out of parenthood.
But it wasn't to be. We never found out if it was me, her or both of us who were incapable of having kids. So, we just took care of other people's kids and had a great influence on many of them.
She divorced me in 2011 and I have been very lonesome ever since. I do have supportive friends and am glad for that.
Until the day you become a great mommy, just do your "homework" on the family and learn not so much from books, but by talking to friends and family about marriage and the family and closely observe both negative and positive things that you want to copy or avoid in your own family.
Good luck to you, dear and remember, take your time and make decisions oh so carefully and you won't go wrong. If you do make a wrong decision, then just take the consequences for it and, more importantly, LEARN from them and take mental note to not repeat them. You will be better for it!

There's an editing function (though I kinda guessed what you were saying)
Hmm... still needa know what age she's in

If she's 13-14 then there's alot of changes going on in her life. She probably wouldn't want you to butt in her stuff anymore. Actually, that goes for 13 and above. Although when she's like 15,16, 17 and stuff, she might open up to you depending on how well you treat her, and how comfortable she feels telling you. Basically you can just give her some advise that DOES NOT OFFEND HER (This... can get you hit XD) and just reassuring things. She's probably insecure now that puberty hits (like all other kids) and just want some reassurance and guidance. Share your experiences with her and how you dealt with it, how she should do it, and do consider the possibility of different genders handling issues differently

Well, thats what I think... hope it'll help somehow :P

same here. although she hasnt hit me since i shot up to 62 at 13 lol. i think she is a little afraid of me now a days which really sucks considering i just want to be a good big bro you know?

i wish i had an older sister like this :) or older brother would be cool too :D

you will be a great mum.

older siblings can be cool. but they are also cruel " shivers as i remember several bad incidents " lol

anneliese

thank you for your interest. oh i just saw that you added me. i will also add you so we can chat later :)

High five middle child syndromes HAHA
Yea I too remembered my sis and bro teaming up and ditching me... Oh wells, I talked to my chair :> Yep, a chair XD
Now it's more of me getting along with the both of them... We're all growing up and maturing so theres actually lesser conflicts
Although at times my sis can have terrible mood swings but I let it go (even when she hits me, but she seldom does) cause I've been through that stage before

Thank you :) I'll make that dream come true! 😁

good for you. thats a great dream to have.

@Bigbear170 And here I thought she was small .-.
Well... I'm guessing you're 17 then XD
Idk... erm... try talking to her more I guess
I always watch movies with my bro, share with him my music, stuff that happened in the day... But I'm not sure about sisters... when I shared those with my sis she told me I was annoying lol

You would definitely be a great mum! :)

no its not that bad. but i also have a little sister and she totally captured him. and ill tell you she was a mean little girl at 5 through 9. whatever she wanted she got. lol. and she liked to " play " with me. and she always got him to go along with it

I'm sorry to hear about your family... But I'm glad you have such supportive friends. And thank you for the advice, I'll remember it well :)

it don't matter to me. it takes a whole hell of a lot to embarrass m. just post what your comfortable with. also i meant 6,2 tall. not 62 lol

Aww haha thats sweet
How old is she? I could probably give some advice... Or we can wait for the messaging function for some privacy 😂

Thank you Rachel :) Actually, I'd really like to chat with you more when the messaging system is up, if you don't mind... XD

@Bigbear170 Is it bad for brothers? XD I'm pretty close with mine... We don't exactly fight and stuff lol

@Bigbear170 Yes please I'd be glad to have more friends I'm quite bored now...

That's pretty much the age gap between me and my brother... Happy birthday in advance! XD

ill try that. and actually i am 17 but ill be 18 in 3 weeks

friendship accepted lol

Thanks Rachel! ^_^ See you soon haha

she turned 16 last week

can i chat to???? lol

Well thank you

:)