never get a partner with the expectation of having them motivate you

complete you
push you to do things
fix you
magically make you feel self confident

'the one' is a lie fed to you by media
you are the one for yourself and there is no other perfect match

also dont get into a relationship if you are too insecure to where it affects your self image because it will affect your relationship
self love over external love is the first that should be on your list before relationship

infatuation is instant attraction

love means to know and see a persons flaws and still love them all the same
love also does not die with excitement but turns into a mature love and evolves