I Want to Know

Whats biting you?

My fiance stopped to see me at work. She doesn't work and is much younger than I. She told me she had "plans" for after work and I suggested we see how I'm doing after a long day. She got angry.

Why angry?

She feels rejected.

Oh no!

Yep. If I'm in the mood and she's not, then I have to just sit on it, but if she's in the mood and I'm not, she takes it as a personal affront. Sigh.

Tune your moods.

We do try. I'm ready and willing in the morning, but I am usually tired and not in the mood by the time I've finished work. She is never in the mood early, needing hours to wake up and get the blood moving, so she is always in the mood late. Sometimes we hit it in the middle, though.

That is so sad

Yeah....

Whats her weakness?

I beg your pardon? Do you mean like flowers or ice cream or do you mean like kryptonite or like kissing the back of her neck?

What turns her on?

Sexually, i meant

Being pushed up against the wall and kissed hard; having her ass slapped until it turns red; seeing a guy touch his own hard cock. Dominant actions.

Play on her weakness

I do. I think that is why we still work as a couple on a sexual level.

May be she has low sex drive.

No, no... there are other reasons. She actually has a high sex drive, as do I. It's timing more than anything.

How does one fix that?

Change our sleep habits. Also, we have a room mate and we are both a bit inhibited when he is home, as she is very, very loud. When she realizes she is being that loud, she clamps down and loses the moment. Which frustrates her no end.

Loud ones are are usually sexy girls.

Does your room mate see you two having sex?

No. Though we are both exhibitionists, we feel that that would put too much of a strain on things. We both think of him more as a brother.

Strange. If he is in the same room, he cant be like a brother.