I Am Unsure About My Sexuality

I Know Im Not Gay Or Bi, But!!... its just that i have never ever had the confidence to talk to women, even though i have always liked them, and always wanted to be involved with one of them, but im now 30, and i still havent found the confidence to talk to women, and im still a loner, as i have been , as far back as i can remember!!! but recently its been getting to me, cos ive been having nightmares about being with guy's, and then i wake up, and im relieved that it was just a bad dream!! i mean no offence to any gay people out there, but it makes me sick, to think about having a relationship with a guy, and its something i would never do, but i just dont understand why i have these bad dreams, cos i know that all my feelings are towards women, but these bad dreams worry me!!!

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cowshed123 · 41-45, M

thanks for your comment *RosesNBloom*!! its just that, you know, i dont exactly want or look to get with a woman thats a supermodel or a beauty queen or something like that lol, cos i do know that im not all that hehe, but its just that when i seem to get the feeling that i might have a chance with a particular girl, i become disinterested and i back away!! i dont know why i back away and become disinterested like that, but i do!!!

CatchCabby

I'm surprised! Not about doubting your sexuality, but about being too shy.
I never picked that up at all. I think you are great fun.
I thin most of us question our sexuality, and probably dream about it too.
Just try to relax and be yourself, put yourself out there in all sorts of ways, and I hope you meet the one of your dreams soon x@

RosesNBloom

So just summon some courage, choose someone that's in your league (we all need to know this, straight or not) and make an invitation to coffee or something....you have to put yourself out there because she's not going to show up on your door step with a bow on her head!

cowshed123 · 41-45, M

*Dewduster* : i have always been shy, and more often than not, i prefer the smell of a woman!!!

*Cabcraft* : im usually the most relaxed person in the room, apart from when it comes to women!!! lol

Dewduster

Maybe you are just shy.
I have heard that one simple test is the reaction you have to the smell of a woman or man. If you prefer the smell of a woman then you may have your ans...DD

floatingintheocean

Don't worry, it's pretty clear that you love women, you're fine :)

cowshed123 · 41-45, M

i know lol!!

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