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Why is this happening?

Just when I'm finally taking the steps to plan my escape route and get outta here, I get a slap in the face with the "I'm pregnant" line.

I was so pissed I told her I didn't believe her so she got all mad and took 5 pregnancy tests and showed me. Duddeee! I feel TRAPPED. I wanna get out but I couldn't take not being there for my kid. I never had a dad.

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AlyAngel · F

You can be a good father and still not be with the mother but she will always be in your life because she is the mother of your child. I hope things work out and hope you do the responsible thing. Best wishes

BettyBeez

You can be a dad and not be with her

Indifferent · 31-35, M

@BettyBeez listen, that's good advice and all but this girl is devious!! She would use that kid to get back at me and punish me, she already terminated one pregnancy because she was mad at me for total BS. What would she do if I left?

BettyBeez

@Indifferent i get it, i do. But, you can’t stick around just for that. Thats no way to live and think of the example you’ll set for your child.

xSiFiGamer2016x · 22-25, M

If you don't wanna ending up thinking "like father, like son" memo, then I'd raise that child and be a good father to that child. There are single parents out here that are capable of having that child. If she's that much of making you lose your mind, then leave her. You deserve better. Also, if you really want to raise your baby on your own, try the court first about keeping your child.

SW-User

It's probably happening so you and your child can be blessings in one another's lives. You're about to level up.

TexChik · F

oh so that was what you were referring to, after aborting the first one? Marrying her is a mistake. she is unstable

curiosi · 61-69, F

I don't know why it is happening, sometimes we need to just roll with the punches.

JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F

You do not need to be with her in order to be a father.

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