I Think Women Should Be Able to Express Their Sexuality

I was married for many years before my ex finally spoke up and told me how she liked to be touched..'down there'.. it was frustrating that she rarely spoke up about what she liked. By the time we got to doing things different we were to far apart in other ways and it was too late.
Ladies, please express yourselves, we men can be pretty thick once things get hard, and what feels good for us may not be working for you