SoulSugar- Good day, ma'am. I hope you'll come to liberation with me in our converse. With respect to your years, ma'am, even I shall say - as lowly to you as I am - that you cannot come to refute that there is ALWAYS a WRING and a RIGHT (side/argument/opinion/statement). I say "...to all your years..." because this is something you know and can even be tracked out of, upon having seen & known the accords of life all your years.
Permit me as I outline two examples. If a person decides to drink poison, insisting that it wouldn't kill him/her, according to your idealogy, it would be wrong of us to stop that person, saying he/she is wrong in the statement ge/she made, because we both know the poison would kill the person.
Also, if not having to point out a person's flaw, stating it is wrong to do or believe this-that-this, though not agreeing, is the right thing, then I suppose you shall agree with me when I say that we are hypocrites then, in that we speak blatantly, in opposition to terrorists - their belief & deeds.
It is better for one to say the truth, though it might hurt for a while, than utter a lie or seal the lips, which will eventually lead the flawed party to destruction/death.