I Have Relationship Problems
I don't think he's who I thought he was. We were already having problems when something just felt off, missing.
But now his anger's starting to show. He doesn't snap at me often but he does at other people a lot, he's so unnecessarily rough with other people and I hate it. Seeing him that mad and cold scares me because I know one day he'll be comfortable enough that he'll think he can snap on me like he does other people.
I grew up watching my moms boyfriend come into our lives loved and gradually become someone we feared and couldn't stand because of his anger. I grew up with that and I don't want that in a boyfriend.
I talked with him about calming down when he got angry, that it was always over stupid things that could be resolved from just talking instead of blowing up. He said he was trying to dial it down and be less harsh towards people but I don't think he is.
But now his anger's starting to show. He doesn't snap at me often but he does at other people a lot, he's so unnecessarily rough with other people and I hate it. Seeing him that mad and cold scares me because I know one day he'll be comfortable enough that he'll think he can snap on me like he does other people.
I grew up watching my moms boyfriend come into our lives loved and gradually become someone we feared and couldn't stand because of his anger. I grew up with that and I don't want that in a boyfriend.
I talked with him about calming down when he got angry, that it was always over stupid things that could be resolved from just talking instead of blowing up. He said he was trying to dial it down and be less harsh towards people but I don't think he is.
22-25, F