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I Am Tired Of All The Slut-Shaming

I just want to share my personal experience so no hate please. I am not a slut but people have the assumption that I am. At first I did not really understand why I was getting all the attention I was, but then I quickly came to realise people had been talking. The more talk, the more males I had. I did not have sex with these guys, only bit of flirting and fun. I found that they all said the same thing, words became meaningless and I felt like utter shit. I am a smart person, super great at a lot of things and generally easy going, but they did not care about that. They only liked me for my body and what started off as fun turned to something which has really damaged my mental health.

Just a note to people, assumptions can be really damaging. Although hook ups and flirting can be fun, there are also consequences, whether it is you or the other person that deals with them.
Leafkiss · 22-25, F
Well think of it also that someone might be defaming you because they are jealous of you.
BearDownChicago · 41-45, M
[@539876,Cryingleaf] very logical. They can't beat you so they try to slap you down
Velvety · F
Life has taught me lots. It will to you too in time. Concentrate on making your own life a happy one, leave mean people far from you and don't let everybody get too close.

Best wishes..
quitwhendone · 46-50, M
I have no assumptions about you at all. And I never slut-shame any woman. Don't let what people on here say get to you.
Mistypetal · 18-21, F
[@955094,quitwhendone] Not on here, people I know in real life.
quitwhendone · 46-50, M
[@1888,Mistypetal] Oh, ok. Well don't let those people bother you either. Just ignore them.
SW User
It's usually highly irrational who gets targeted with this shit

People who have any maturity don't slut shame
BondGirl84 · 36-40, F
No assumptions at all... others like to bitch esp when they got nothing going on in their own lives... just be yourself & forget others!
Daviszabecki · 56-60, M
Sad to read of your experiences. Being a smart person is always much more interesting in the long run. Be proud of yourself.
Montanaman · M
#EasyA 😔
It happens this way a lot. Dickless guys, mean girls. It all amounts to bullying. And can have serious consequences to the mental health of those bullied. I'm sorry this has and is happening to you. 😔😔🤗🤗💞💞🌹
tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F
It sounds like people were jealous that you are attracting all the men.They thought you were enjoying a lot of casual sex with different men.
BearDownChicago · 41-45, M
That miss well said. I hate it when rumors get spread out people. Why. Why purposely damage someone. Nothing wrong with having some fun.
There is always an agenda with people who do and say things like that. it actually says more about them than it does you.
dannyppaul · 56-60, M
In a couple of years (if not less) none of those people will matter at all to you.
No one has any right to be calling you a slut and what you do is no one heres business
Quimliqer · 61-69, M
Great words. Too many use assumptions and not seek the facts.
SW User
That sucks. Try to cut back on the flirting and avoid shit head guys.
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
Why is slut shaming so one-sided against women as well?
Smikezz2 · 46-50, M
ScarletMoonEmpire · 36-40, F
[c=#359E00]where is your story?[/c]

 
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