I Am Tired Of All The Slut-Shaming

@Shayla Right On! But the double standard bothers me. If I sleep with multiple women they'd label me a pimp but if she sleeps with multiple men they'd label her a slut. my significant other is polyamorous and occasionally does gangbangs and I still love her. She's the best thing that ever happened to me.

I don't like the slut shaming. Especially not of my favorite person.

@BetweenKittensandRiots I am poly too. I have no hangups about sex. I just fear if the pendulum swings too far people could start shaming those with inexperience. Let's all just mind our own sexual business and shame no one. It should be a win-win for everyone.

@Shayla I'm a virgin. It's really mindbending to be with a polyamorous female. She's more perverted than I am. I've never... it's a distance relationship. although i'm flying out to chicago to meet her soon. People would shame me for being a 32 year old virgin.

it's just blah. People are so judgmental.

@BetweenKittensandRiots Exactly. Neither of you should be shamed.
I try to stay involved in sex positive groups. They're usually much more open minded about everything.

@Shayla Yeah when it comes to feminism I'm definately on the sex positive side.I side with sex positive feminist over sex negative ones. The whole anti porn thing. People seem determined to prove that smut increased the number of rapes but it actually does the opposite. Sexual assaults go down. People need release. It's not healthy to be sexually frustrated.

@BetweenKittensandRiots Rape is about control, not sex. Linking the two isn't logical.
My friends tend to be kinky. We enthusiastically take our own pictures and videos. We tend to be of the mindset that as long as it's consentual, go for it.