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I imagine that everyone in this group can understand the roller coaster to some level. Basically I find myself having more frustrated these and happy and exciting days. And honestly would welcome the opportunity to develop a relationship of sorts with a woman in a similar situation. For example do you ever wish you just get away and take a break?
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Having affairs to relieve boredom instead of genuinely attempting to revive the marriage instead is not included in that category.
If you're honest with yourself, you're not looking for a relationship, just someone to f*uck. If that is your thing then it is, but be honest about what it is.
Marriages are supposed to suffer ups and downs. It won't always be fun and exciting. Chances are she isn't feeling it either, so why not say so?
People in sexless marriage (as I am) struggle very hard not to cave. It's not about boredom or a thrill, it's about a loss of a spouse emotionally. There is a big difference between the two.
Have you considered marriage counseling? My husband and I have recently started seeing a therapist together to try and resolve our issues that have built up over the last 16 years.
It seems as though overnight everything changed. I asked myself these questions such as, Did I miss something? What did I miss? Did I forget too take care of my man somehow? WTF?
It was hard to hear the truth from my therapist but I needed to hear it. I had to get to know who I was again, and believe you and me that has been the hardest thing to do.
If you want your marriage to work, then work on it. If you have had enough of the bullshit, then do what you gotta do. Either way be true to yourself and your family. Arguing like that sounds exhausting.