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Why is it so hard for some people to be kind?

Poll - Total Votes: 14

Bitter melons

The way they were raised

Defense mechanism

They just want to be jerks

Theyre sick

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I guess its because i know how it feels to feel ... that low. That it makes me see red when others take peoples feelings so lightly. We all live different lives. Respect.

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RubySoo · 56-60, F

I dont know....many different reasons.
And those that carry on being insensitive when someone has told them they have upset them....
Even if its unitentional... it would kill some people to apologise for upseting another...

Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F

@RubySoo funny how that is. Makes me really respect the ones that can admit that theyre wrong.

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@Nevaeh0081 its not even that they are wrong at times. Ive hurt peoples feelings many times with truth. I'll akways appologise for hurting someones feelings...even if i stand by what i say. X

NCCindy · 36-40, F

It's not that hard ... and it feels so much better when you are !!!

Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F

@NCCindy true

Abstraction · 61-69, M

Online particularly. People react to something in print that you'd ignore in conversation. People are nastier online in ways they wouldn't do face to face. It lowers people's sensitivity.

NankerPhelge · 61-69, M

@Abstraction It doesn't work like that with me. I so rigidly forbid duality that I'm totally incapable of it myself. What you see is what you get with me. I tell it exactly the way it really is online, just the same as I do in real life. Why can't others?

Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F

@Abstraction true

Om2014 · 31-35, M

Life is messy, when things arent going their way people get cranky. Which is the case for most of us for most of the time. Its sad. Many people be nice to strangers but are so harsh for closely related. If we are joyful, we spread joy inevitably. Same is true otherwise.

PhoenixPhail · M

Some people are just angry at the world.

NankerPhelge · 61-69, M

They're sick, obviously.

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Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F

@ChemDawg true. Could be.

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