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I Will Not Be Involved With Toxic People

Judged By The Company You Keep... It doesn't take long to figure out the "Who's Who" on EP. When I feel wronged, I instinctively want to vindicate myself but why try? It just adds fuel to the fire. I refuse to participate in that crap. I know the truth and will not even try to prove it to anyone else.  Besides life is too good to involve myself with toxic people.

I always take the high road. My real friends know who I am and that I operate with integrity. What I will not tolerate are lies. I will not stay friends with people who carry tales, twist facts and play sides.

When I see that happening, I slowly back out. The shame of it is that there are drama queens and kings who love to make happy people look bad. Rejection is a powerful emotion and that is where a lot of it comes from.  People need to take responsibility for their own actions.

That is ok.It is your karma not mine. It all comes out in the wash. Always.
sierra33
I have learned on ep that while one person might be not right for one person they can be fine for someone else....Crazy dynamics...I know... but it just goes to show we are all different and the internet sometimes brings out sides of folks we'd never see otherwise.

I think it is always best to look for the happy stuff and hang onto it with both hands! Then again I am the girl who gets called a whore cause I have sex with my own legal hubs and bitched out because I praise him!! :D Sometimes ya gotta laugh and just keep moving in your own direction in here.... :D
akindheart · 61-69, F
Sie, it is not a matter of dynamics. I agree.

It is those crazy lunatics that play people, carry tales, LIE, then turn it around on those of us that are nice. you know the ones that talk smack then blame it on you...You can't rationalize with lunatics.

my favorite saying is "People are like tuning forks, they vibrate to their own frequency" very true.
sierra33
I totally like that saying!! :D
The1960texan
My Daughters Mother id one of those who just cant stand to see anyone happy.Ive never understood this.She has even gone as far as trying to seduce My/Her son in law just recently.He would have none of it and let My daughter know right away! There was no reason at all but to try and brake up a happy marriage.A Good marrige of 10 years! Im proud that My daughter stood by Her Husband and kicked the evil one out!
akindheart · 61-69, F
Fantastic. all evil comes undone. it all comes out in the wash. I am a firm believer in loyalty. I expect nothing less...thank you for posting.
The1960texan
Your Very welcome!
sciguy18
"Practical life teaches us that people may differ and that both may be wrong: it also teaches us that people may differ and both be right. Anchor yourself fast in the latter faith, or the former will sweep your heart away." ~ Augustus William Hare and Julius Charles Hare
akindheart · 61-69, F
I like this simpler saying from Mark Twain: (paraphrased) always do right. It will please some of the people and surprise the rest. this is not a matter of chemistry or difference of opinion. It is when someone does wrong, is outed, and mad for it. They always point the finger at someone else. They need to take responsibility for their own actions. Since that doesn't happen, all i can do is block. AND I do..
i sleep with a clear conscience..I play no games in real life or online. thank you sweetie.
sciguy18
I concur - wrong is wrong. If they don't fess up to it, you need to take whatever action you deem necessary.
mewold
I have taken sides in a couple disagreements and I might again, but it will have to be for someone I feel strongly about. Sometimes, If a good person is getting hurt and unable to help themselves, I might step in. Because I don't care what people (except my friends,) think of me.
akindheart · 61-69, F
thanks babe. I have handled it and will let the cards fall in place. It always does..
sparklingdiamonds
well said Mr Mewold...
jml2000
Don't forget about those evil trolls. They can have several fake profiles and come back to continue with nasty and vindictive comments.
jml2000
A new profile can be created with a email address and password. A troll goes to yahoo and creates a succession of id's and uses them with a password to register at EP.
akindheart · 61-69, F
"she" set up fake profiles using fake email addresses. and told me.
sparklingdiamonds
Blimey..i wonder where they find the time to keep up with so many fake personas.
Frankfarmer
Again, you have written about some of the people here and elsewhere who have nothing better to do than bring a good person down.
Keep your head up and know that nothing can change the good that resides within you. You are the TRUE treasure.
akindheart · 61-69, F
you have been nothing but a ray of truth. you know me better than anyone. I can not nor will i try to convince people of my veracity. I don't try to be perfect but i do try to be honest...hugs sweetie and thanks for posting.
nudistguyny
I give you credit for taking the high road and not lowering yourself to the level that those "drama kings and queens" are at. It is harder and takes a stronger person to walk away from such garbage. Good for you !!
akindheart · 61-69, F
It serves no purpose to wallow in the mud. What is that saying? wallow in the mud with pigs and get dirty. spot on..
diggler
Well said,and considering who is saying it,I'm not at all surprised.I know we sort of pass by each other and occassionaly bump hulls,but I admire you,and it's because of statements like this one,that I do.
akindheart · 61-69, F
Regardless what anyone thinks of me personally or of my choices, I shoot straight from the hip. If people don't like it , oh well. But I always tell the truth. always. thank you for the compliment!
SleepingTiger
Sorry to hear you had to wade through some toxin. But it sounds like you've washed it off and you're moving on.

XO
akindheart · 61-69, F
yep.. that I did..if you wallow in the mud with pigs, you are gonna get dirty..not my style.
sparklingdiamonds
Lol..nicely put...
Harley52
Yes, your real friends do know you and love you all that much more. Be careful sweetheart....
akindheart · 61-69, F
my bullshit radar is running strong and clear..no worries about me. I just block them.
HStoner
I hope that this post is not motivated by someone harrassing you.
akindheart · 61-69, F
no one harasses me without my permission..and that is not happening. Rejection is a powerful emotion..and blocking someone rejects them. They can't handle it.
miraclerenancer
miraclerenancer
bullseye baby
akindheart · 61-69, F
"x" marks the spot..
akindheart · 61-69, F
very true...so let me add a few for you...xxxxx
1naughtiesfriend
akindheart · 61-69, F
lol....they follow me!
1naughtiesfriend
uh huh....and you got a big heart to let them in. Haven't you learned anything from your other post about someone following you.
akindheart · 61-69, F
oh boy....yes indeed!

 
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