What is the harm in remaining a question mark?

I never liked it when others tried to pry into my orientation. I know what I am and that should be enough. I keep it to myself because I do not believe we have to share every aspect of ourselves to those around us. If you know you know and if not I am sorry but you will have to make your own conclusion.

For decades it has always been a barrage of questions. How come you never married? Why do you not have children? How come you never are with this type of person? Why do you never talk about this type of person? Why do you never check them out? Why why and why?

There have also been times even my gender has come into question. This one baffles me even more. I do not see why it matters. I live my life as I feel is right for me.