Interesting is a good word.. i like the way you dealt with it.. its ALL you can do.. you don't mention disappointment.. i think i would be disappointed.. I once had a week where no less than 7 people I had planned to meet cancelled on me lol that was the record.. sure I had double booked a couple of times, simply because I know often people don't really go through with what they say.. and it's fine. of course we know that the *issues* are with them not us.. and I think I was fine about the cancellations and had a good laugh telling friends.. but... even so it *can* be disappointing.. especially on a wider scale that so many people these days are all talk.. but ya i think we learn to anticipate a little less..

I love this post and it speaks highly of you that you have reached such a state of reason and calm. I would not have been a happy camper in the same situation, and I don't think she really acted fairly. If she had doubts about your meeting she should have come up with a workaround not just run for the hills.

What I have noticed with celebrities like Taylor Swift is that they are surrounded by chaos, constant lies about their behavior and personality, and there are huge numbers of attempts to screw their lives up. What I hear in interviews from such people is the same message: that you should focus on controlling what you can control, and just learn to ignore what you cannot control. (I'm sure you are thrilled to be compared to Taylor Swift...Lol.) I have not learned to do this.

I also loved the Vimeo and I may borrow that for my own post someday.

so you were going to meet a woman and taking toys to make it special but now you aren't you're spending time with your girlfriend. Just clarifying things...