I Won't Friend You Just Because You Friended Me

If you sounds like a broken record and complains allot and can't help yourself there's a good chance I'll move on. I tried to initiate and ask you out and you are too busy its just a waste of my care and energy. After you ignore me you ask me if I want to hang out, I don't want to hang out with you anymore and move on. I have a life too and being busy is not an excuse contributing into the friendship is also a important part. You are lucky that i ask you out and give you options to make plans. So don't wait until I reach out and if I moved on it's too late and you had one chance. The truth is any friendship will not last if there's no contribution on you part and rely on the other person to reach out. Doesn't how busy someone is they always make time for you. Some says a good friend didn't see each other for months at end, no, that's not true. If you reach out call and text its just checking in and you don't exactly need to hang out. Some people just doesn't have friends because they spend most of their time occupied with plans that doesn't allow friendships to develop. People who are work aholics work 40 hrs a week and spend 0 time on weekends to relax or catch on to their social life. And people who likes to stay home too much of the time didn't look good either. They spend too much time being caught up with themselves wondering why they are so lonely? When they are being asked out they prefer to stay home most of the time.