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I Don't Think Girls Should Diet

Yes, i think so. I think that fat is core of female beauty, and therefore i think that girls/women should do the opposite - eat all the time as much as they can instead of trying to lose weight and diet. That is my opinion but as I know, there are lot of men (and women sometimes too) who prefer chubby, plumper, fat, or even obese or REALLY fat and obese females and find them more attractive than skinny women.
So, women can drop this skinny-as-dead propaganda away and just be yourself. Yes, i understand that there are women who really want be skinny, but not for skinny itself but to do something (e. g. climb to Everest or reach some sport results), but most women, if not pressured by advertisements, and surrounded by tasty food, will stat to eat more and more just because this is so natural for girls and women to become fat, fatter and even fatter.

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Sekz

I relate to your opinion and I think that for women, being thin is a competition between them : it makes them more active, socially and politically more powerful, even more powerful than men sometimes... being thin makes them similar to men in some way, that's why men don't find them sexually desirable, i guess.
When we say that women are generally pacific, being thin on purpose reveals that they can be non-pacific as well, to themselves and to other women, creating the "guilt" (guilt of eating, of having pleasure, of spending money...)
It's an ethical-economical position whether you eat "naturally" or "according to your diet". Like a political regime. I think it is actually a philosophical question : Do you live submitted to "reason" (i.e. beliefs) or to "passions" (i.e. physical impressions) ?
Men love women to be submitted to passion because they have to deal themselves with "reason" and "justice" between them (fights, war...) And passionate women (who don't diet) are a chance for men to master the situation, dictate the rules and reproduce... No ? ;-)

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yetanotherfeeder · 41-45, M

When it goes to social context of relations, i think about this as well: as more and more jobs will be automated. And one way to solve the growing unemployment issue is to glorify obesity and "eat and sleep" (or even home-bound) fattening lifestyle for the women (or for partner who cares about children or just about "atmosphere in home"). In this case, of course, salaries would be higher because the people who'll work, will need enough money to care not just about self but about their wife/husband/partner.

Sekz

I agree. Unemployment is definitely a fact that has to be taken into consideration. Also, a fat partner taking care of "home atmosphere" seems like a nice balance with the stress of outside work. In my case however, i still believe it could be dangerous for kids to grow up obese, because of potential health issues... But this next generation will probably get used to it in some way, i hope for them.
Do you have kids ?

yetanotherfeeder · 41-45, M

No, we don't have kids and don't plan have them. Well, we both think that fat mother can help sons to see the BBWs beauty and help daughter prevent anti-fat-fear syndrome.
The fat-related health problems can be sorted out by the science achievements.

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