can my family just shut up and stop

Once again they are accusing me of "white washing" myself or trying to look more white. Shut up, just because I wear circle lenses or bleach my hair and because I've had a few things tweaked on my face doesn't mean I'm trying to go all rachel dolezal. Next one who makes a remark is getting yelled at. I don't care if I will be seen as disrespectful but I'm not going to take it anymore.