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I Think Being Nice Is Important

There are too many mean people in this world. As the older I get the more I realize that if you try to be nice to people & they're still mean. It's not worth your time or effort. I love to make people smile & laugh. Best quality about me. Even know I could be down, I will make the ones around smile. Love this site bc I can vent but also make people laugh. If you need a friend or need to talk. DM or respond here
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ISMELLPROTEINPOWDER · 22-25, M
Yeah he... Exactly not that innocent anymore and it raises a stereotype in my little world against my will to avoid and bad mouth older individuals because the older individuals I interactor with is usually mean that made me a impression that all older individuals are not nice and are meanies that's why I don't like old people they are assumption based that forces their hypothesis on you
McShay1978 · 41-45, M
@ISMELLPROTEINPOWDER i give anyone the benefit of the doubt. I've was going once and I know that happened to me. If you show respect, then it shows you were raised right. Sorry people do that to you my friend
ISMELLPROTEINPOWDER · 22-25, M
@McShay1978 well I don't purposely go badmouthing people but I do seem on the outside to get along with adults just fine as long as I don't let myself get into any deep bonding relationship with them I'll be just fine because I'll not feel comfortable the longer I get into a deep friendship with them the more theyll know the ugly truth slowing leaking out of me. The only time I truly humiliated a adult was only when pushed out of my limits where I did something wrong that particular adult started badmouthing me in front and to my friends they had a professional high paying job also as a human philologist for many year and it escalated to them blogging about me as of a harassment in my city but yeah as long as you don't physically threaten and bother me illeave you alone
McShay1978 · 41-45, M
@ISMELLPROTEINPOWDER remember you are an adult also. You deserve respect too. Don't let anyone walk over you. When I was your age I used to let it happen all the time. When I was you age, thought I knew everything but I didn't. Sometimes don't over react and listen. It may help you in the long run. Shit I'm 39 and still learning. Now a days I don't let people disrespect me. I'll let a few things go but if it goes overboard, I'll keep cool to a point. Just if you don't let the older people see it's bothering you, they will stop. Just bit of advice my friend. Trying to help but take it as you want. Not trying to tell you wait ro do but just want to give advice ive learn. Hope you know no disrespect when
ISMELLPROTEINPOWDER · 22-25, M
@McShay1978 thank younice stranger I appreciate it I wouldn't disrespect them unless it involves my own safety being at risk. But however I do have a stereotype on adults but if I ever do get into a friendship with them they are nice to me and very reasonable and don't force their hypothesis on me I MIGHT just for that individuals break my stereotype and genuinely trust that person only if they are worthy of my trust and bring me another better view on adults
McShay1978 · 41-45, M
@ISMELLPROTEINPOWDER you have your right..look I'm about 20yrs older than you but respect you opinion and listen. Remember that not all adults are not pricks. If both sides communicate it may solve.alot of issues
ISMELLPROTEINPOWDER · 22-25, M
@McShay1978 yeah that's the solution I wish that's how it works out but in this corrupted society and based on prejudice and natural fear and avoidance people tend to keep it in their tummy and not share their opinions and I am also that way too it's the result of adults and society undermining me by telling me that they are scared so go away and not talk about it over time I developed that also feeling that my points and opinion does not matter and do not openly communicate do to society prejudice I learn to keep stuff away from adults for my own safety fear in adults can lead to violence
McShay1978 · 41-45, M
@ISMELLPROTEINPOWDER sorry my friend! Well if you ever need to just chat or want to express what you're feeling. Reach out. I wouldn't judge
ISMELLPROTEINPOWDER · 22-25, M
@McShay1978 oh okay thank you